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Quest

I searched For meaning Without Yet looking within What is lost Will be found Clarity creeps Like smoke With age I am learning To let go To be free Of everything Only nothing Endures Leaves fall Skins peel Waters dry Rocks erode Air dissappears Like fading memories Leave Marks no deeper Than a lifetime Brief Like a breath Each moment Counting down To eternity Haidarwali 201709271518hrs

Father's Role as a Manager of the Family

In my previous write-up  on the subject matter I listed out the functions of a manager as an analogy to the father's role. Here, I expand on them: Planning: Generally this is one of the hardest things to actually do because most times we feel it is somewhat futile since the ideal is hardly the same as reality. However, planning is fundamental to success and thus as a father you must plan consciously. If you want a good home you must make the effort to document where you are as a family and where you want to go (the vision).  Your plan will answer questions like how big a family do you want have; what are the values you want your family to be identified with;  etc. Personally I like to document in writing so that I have a 'working document' which enables me to measure how far I am going and make corrections in case I am starting to derail.  . Organizing: Here is where you actually start implementing the plan. As a father it is your responsibility to consc...